What we focus on
Communication patterns, unresolved conflicts, trust and closeness, life transitions, parenting as partners, and rebuilding after crises – always with both of your perspectives in the room.
For Couples
Couples counselling & relationship coaching – reconnect, understand, trust again.
Based in Frankfurt · Online across DACH & Europe · Sessions in English or German
A calm, structured space to see each other clearly, to be heard, and to shape the next chapter of your relationship – together.
“The first duty of love is to listen.” — Paul Tillich
What we work on
Topics couples bring into counselling.
You do not need to have the right words yet. We find them together – in a space that holds both of you.
- Communication problems and recurring conflicts
- Rebuilding trust after distance or hurt
- Understanding different needs and attachment styles
- Strengthening emotional closeness and intimacy
- Navigating life changes together (parenthood, moving, career)
- Developing healthier conflict strategies
- Recognising patterns that keep the relationship stuck
- Repair and reconnection after a crisis
How this works
How couples counselling with me works.
A calm, structured process – so both partners feel heard and change gains traction between sessions.
How a session runs
60–90 minutes, in person in Frankfurt or online across DACH and Europe. We alternate between structured dialogue, targeted questions and practical exercises tailored to your relationship.
Typical outcomes
Clearer, calmer communication; concrete agreements you can live with; a shared understanding of the patterns you were stuck in – and a renewed sense of team.
Booking your free 15-min call
We start with a free, no-obligation 15-minute call to clarify your situation, answer questions and check the fit before we commit to a first full session.
FAQ
Quick answers for couples.
Do both partners need to want couples counselling?
Openness from both partners is essential for effective relationship coaching. You don't need to agree on everything – but both should be willing to reflect, listen and try new ways of communicating.
Book a free 15-minute introductory call togetherHow does couples coaching start?
We begin with a free 15-minute introductory call to understand your situation and clarify how we can work together. After that, most couples meet for 6–12 sessions of 90–120 minutes, scheduled at a rhythm that suits you.
See fees & packagesHow long does systemic couples coaching usually take?
Most couples work through 6–12 sessions of 90–120 minutes. Some come for a short repair phase after a conflict; others for a longer process of reshaping the relationship, improving communication and rebuilding trust.
Couples counselling in Germany – how sessions workIs couples counselling still useful when we're thinking about separation?
Yes. A neutral, empathetic setting helps you decide with clarity – whether the path forward is together, differently together, or apart with respect. Separation coaching is a valid outcome of the process.
Get in touch confidentiallyWhich topics does couples coaching typically address?
Communication patterns, recurring conflicts, loss of closeness or intimacy, jealousy, life transitions, parenthood, patchwork situations, infidelity, and rebuilding trust after ruptures.
Online couples coaching across EuropeCoaching in Frankfurt & online across DACH and Europe
Based in Frankfurt am Main, I work with clients across Hesse and the Rhine-Main region in person, and with English- and German-speaking clients across Germany, Austria, Switzerland and the wider EU online.
Klemke Coaching Services
Senckenberganlage 10-12
60323 Frankfurt am Main, Germany
Introductory call
Let's get to know each other – in a free 15-minute introductory call.
Briefly share what's on your mind, ask questions, see whether it's a fit. Free, non-binding, online.
Booking via Calendly – instant confirmation.